OK. You have joined a few dating services plus written a killer profile. You've uploaded a great picture and now you are going to chat with a contact. What now? How do you start separating those who have actual potential and those who don't have any potential at all? You should seek out something about who this strange woman really is and not just who she wants you to believe she is. It would be nice if women wore labels like "Gold Digger" otherwise "Daddy's girl" - but they do not so it is up to you to find these things out and you can't just ask direct questions. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid making and the right way to impress this lady in case you determine you want to do that.

After you are past the initial small talk, ask her, "What are the biggest mistakes guys make when dating online?" Hear carefully to her answers. She's going to tell you a lot about herself and also her views on males in general.

Next you should ask her, "What do you really think about online dating?" Now she will tell you if she has had any bad experiences dating online and help you to keep away from making the same things wrong.

Now for the all-important one....."What triggered the break up in your last relationship?" If she puts all of the blame on the guy, you should probably move on to the next prospect. If she takes all the blame herself, you should probably do the same. If she says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn't suitable for either of them, you have heard the right answer. Move forward but at all times with caution.

Asking the right questions will give you insight and make you more confident when you meet the lady for the first time.

And when you meet her, if you wish to ask questions of her, do it in a gentlemanly, not crude, way. I recommend you try Mr. L. Rx's guide "Dating To Relating - From A To Z" or do a search for terms like "how to approach women", "approach a woman", or "approaching women", so you can learn how to approach ladies with questions in a live meeting.

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